I think we can become robots in our own lives…just routine to routine. It’s safe, it makes sense. As long as you don’t loose yourself in the process…loose your why. Sometimes I think, is there an end goal or am I just spinning my wheels. Maybe I need a break to refocus and start fresh. Sometimes doing nothing is the best something. 😊
That quiet moment of wondering “am I just spinning my wheels?” - I’ve felt that too. And the willingness to pause and reconnect with your “why” - not for anyone else, but for yourself - that’s already a powerful first step.
Thank you for your interest in the guide. It means a lot to know this resonates. I’m working on it now and will be sure to let you know once it’s ready to share!
I used to be like that too where I kept putting others first and that led me to burnt out. This year I'm focusing on my mental health and becoming the best version of myself.
Indifference vs. Difference? It makes no difference. It makes an indifference. Religion talks about Love. I translate Love as Caring. I think that's what the universe requires. I care about everyone, but, as you suggest, I have to care about myself too. So I can't show caring to everyone. It would just be exhausting. I need the "universe" to tell me where to show caring.
I just joined a public Introverts Facebook group. I posted this. "Ambitious introverts here? Like me? It's frustrating that I want to be in the public and educate and entertain the public, but I don't know how. Everything seems to require socializing first, but I want to skip that part. Can we create a troupe of introverts who plan things together online and then organize and go out in public together to do our thing?"
I hear the tension between wanting to care deeply and needing to protect your own energy - that’s something many of us wrestle with. I like how you’re exploring these questions openly.
Wishing you strength and clarity as you follow where your curiosity leads.
Sometimes we don't realise enough that it's okay to have an off day.
So true - off days are part of being human.
I think we can become robots in our own lives…just routine to routine. It’s safe, it makes sense. As long as you don’t loose yourself in the process…loose your why. Sometimes I think, is there an end goal or am I just spinning my wheels. Maybe I need a break to refocus and start fresh. Sometimes doing nothing is the best something. 😊
And I would love the guide👏
Yes, you captured it perfectly, Jill✨
That quiet moment of wondering “am I just spinning my wheels?” - I’ve felt that too. And the willingness to pause and reconnect with your “why” - not for anyone else, but for yourself - that’s already a powerful first step.
Thank you for your interest in the guide. It means a lot to know this resonates. I’m working on it now and will be sure to let you know once it’s ready to share!
Great! Thanks Eugene! 👏
I used to be like that too where I kept putting others first and that led me to burnt out. This year I'm focusing on my mental health and becoming the best version of myself.
That sounds like a powerful shift, Louisa.
Putting yourself first isn’t selfish - it’s the start of real balance.
Wishing you strength and clarity on this journey.
Indifference vs. Difference? It makes no difference. It makes an indifference. Religion talks about Love. I translate Love as Caring. I think that's what the universe requires. I care about everyone, but, as you suggest, I have to care about myself too. So I can't show caring to everyone. It would just be exhausting. I need the "universe" to tell me where to show caring.
I just joined a public Introverts Facebook group. I posted this. "Ambitious introverts here? Like me? It's frustrating that I want to be in the public and educate and entertain the public, but I don't know how. Everything seems to require socializing first, but I want to skip that part. Can we create a troupe of introverts who plan things together online and then organize and go out in public together to do our thing?"
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Len.
I hear the tension between wanting to care deeply and needing to protect your own energy - that’s something many of us wrestle with. I like how you’re exploring these questions openly.
Wishing you strength and clarity as you follow where your curiosity leads.